Neil, that's awful! Really sorry! [:^(] I can't even begin to imagine how bad it feels since I've never actually been in a 10 year relationship but to end it all in a text is a really low thing to do! I hope things work out for ya, either with her or without her! Sx PS Any thoughts on the MK1? Sorry, I know it's off topic but I had my MK1 out last weekend and I'm still smiling now, don't want you to loose that too. Might even help take yer mind off things
ive been slowly collecting a few sneaky bits. erm i just kanouckered my sig edit:sorted. neil. Edited by: riley
You can always come to the forum for freindly help and advice Not to mention a lot of stupidity to take your mind off the world outside
What you are missing is the good bits of your relationship and they tend to take on a rosy/nostalgic glow at this point. But seeing what she's just done to you - that's bad. You don't really want to be with a person that can give you that kind of sh*t and who is totally careless of your feelings. And in a while, you'll realise that the realtionship turned bad. Also, a relationship gets to be a habit, and when it finishes, you suddenly have whole days and evenings to fill on your own, instead of doing things with another person. It seems like your life is empty and pointless and all you can think of is what you had and lost. But gradually your life starts to fill up with other things that take your mind off her. I know what I've said sounds harsh, but I'm talking from experience from having lost someone in a lot worse circumstances. Gradually your time will start to fill with interesting things and interesting people. And you've got all us dozy lot on here whenever you feel like a rant. Hope things soon turn good for you <hugs>
thanks stella i was reading that nodding my head you know,your right,i dont know what to do with myself and i do feel physically sick,what the hells that about? funny thing just happened actually, my mum said ill find you a girlfriend,jokin like. i said,i dont want another. she said,well you better not turn queer!?! neil.
Everything will work out Neil, just takes a bit of time. I split with my ex of 5 1/2 years about 7 months ago and im still gutted about it tbh...... at the same time ive moved on alot and have far more in my life now than what i ever had while i was with my ex and i feel so much happier for it. Good Luck
hmmm my first post and after reading through this thread I feel for you mate. I havent long finished with my gf (just before xmas) our relationship was nowhere near as long as yours but I was hurt all the same, with a text message It does get easier with time mate, I wont lie as I still think about my x a lot but the urge to send a text etc has passed and I just get on with it. And now my money is freeing up for a full respray so theres my silver lining Chin up and stop listening to Akon/Usher/Mario as that poo doesnt help !! AJ
If shes said that all you can do is move on bud. if thats how she wants to end it that be it on her. go out on the urine with ya mates and get ball deep in female dog and u'll feel alot better.
Hope you feeling better about things this week Neil, you have to keep moving forward in life and try not to look back to much and avoid key triggers, like fav song fav place pics ect ect. Its took me the best part of 18 months (he came back after a year just as i was getting over him and screwed me over again) to get over my ex, 2 years monday to be exact since he left and now he is not the first thing I think of in the mornings, in fact now when i think of him I can see how much of an a hole he was. TBH if it wasnt for joining CGTI and being on the forum and meeting a lot of great people (not forgetting to mention the guys at J29), having the best time at shows last years I dont know what I would of done. So I guess from the replys that your getting, the CGTI community is a community that cares Pants spelling and grammer this morning!!!! Edited by: daiseyfleur
