bit of a mix an match here.... I come from a broken home, mum had an affair. and to anyone who hasn't felt it, as a kid it f**ks you up more than anything you could imagine. ever. world upside down job. nothing gets close. I still have trust issues because of it. but on the other side of the coin when i was 19 I slept with a girl i worked with, whom i knew was engaged to a guy who lived miles away, and we had a relationship for a few months until i got paranoid and ended it. It's something i'm totally ashamed of and would never do again, i've always found strength in what i believe to be my very high moral standard. but unfortunately, at the time my hormones kicked in and i went after it. she and i are still friends. the engagement broke off about the same time as her and i stopped seeing each other. Ok i'm not the most sane person on the planet granted, but back to the original title, yes women are totally mental IMO well, at least the ones i'm known so far..... lol regards all Al.