Ladies and gents please, a little decorum on the forum..... Letting the ladies know they have made a mistake... 1. Be super nice and sickly sweet to them and tell them not to worry its only a little mistake. 2. Go and spend the shopping money on booze and a porno mag. 3. Write them an anonimous letter stating their mistake, the time it took place, location and cost. Get a mate to post it from a far away town and then be there when she opens it. 4. Start the sexy moves, then say no sorry, that mistake you made keeps coming back to haunt me, I'm so upset I can't perform. 5. Invite your mother round and tell her all about it infront of her. 6. Go out, come back with another car/woman/dog or a chinese meal for one.
Its more about total control I'm afraid, you can't just isolate the one incident. One way to show unappreciation, say when she says something you don't agree with, is to turn your back and not look at her, maybe focus your attention on something opposite, so that your back is half way turned towards her face and she can't see your face. Like when dogs misbehave, this has to performed right when shes said it, she will within about 10 seconds then try and get your attention again and to do that, she'll have to compensate for her previous comment. That is one of the easiest to perform and easiest to observe ways of controlling psychologically. However, do it too much and you become a sulk. Read 'The Game' which will give you a real basic understanding of the whole idea.
thing is with the game, it's a story, loads of people have read it so don't ever do jealous girlfiend or the cologne line....unless in a totally knowing ironic way
the games people play by eric berne is a very good book, pretty relevant to this. But it doesn't tell you how to pull. It makes it clear how to spot people who are doing things to get a certain response.
I pulled when a girl bent down in front of me to pick up her coat and I said `While your down there love!`. Less than a year later; married. Fours years on; divorced . There`s no pleasing some women. Just pulled again at New Year by doing a bad fat bloke version of Christina Aguilera in the `Dirty` video...with my shirt open...on a table. Don`t know how I do it! What with having a small pen1s and a big belly!
More worrying is the fact that he was searching for a thread on "approaching women", on a VW forum...
